I always say, "I'm sorry for your loss" to my families with good intentions. But, sometimes, I feel like I’m not being completely honest with them. It isn’t because I’m not sorry for their losses, it’s because that isn’t really the phrase that I should be saying to them. In my mind, I mean to be saying, “I’m sorry that I don’t have experience enough in my own life to understand your pain, and I’m sorry that I can’t be more for you in your grief.”